Life change living together with my Boyfriend

I am only 22 years old when I decide to live in my boyfriend apartment together as we plan to get marry. Thing’s aren’t goes too easy for me. It may sound unbelievable but the age gap between me and my boyfriend is 25 years older than me. That age difference plays a lot of tiny little conflict in our relation. Consider this few situations like when we are having a serious conversation, which requires intelligent ideas I have disadvantage according to my real life experience I have less that what he had been. Usually our conversation lead into a stand point, a debate, and sometimes lead to a nasty argument that we go beyond too personal in the both of us. If he said thing’s that for me is not agreeable I would really oppose into that no matter what. There were many changes happen in my life I am facing

struggling for a group of friends around me. I wonder what is right and which not.

Is it okay that I will go to a circle of friends once in a while? To help me not get bored in our relation or even in my life. I live far from my sister’s and brother’s. The nearest home in where I live is my youngest sister .That will consume 3 hrs to travel. There are lot of thing’s also that I like to do but in some case my boyfriend doesn’t like it ,as much as I do. I love to go in the beach once in a week during weekends. He said his not going in the same place again in again. I am a nature lover person I love to spent time relax in the beauty of natures, like water falls, beach, garden ,river ,mountains and other’s.

We have a great falls here that I just gone there once with him and I want to visit that place again but he is not going back to same place again. I am thinking what if I go with a friend of mine? In my head there’s a question that say is it okay to go in that place with a group of friends of course of both girls and guys? The type of a boyfriend I have is not jealous one but I am very watchful who I am mingle with. I avoid a group of friends of the reason that other take advantage for getting close and court me instead, which I hate to explain why I am not available anymore. Frankly speaking I am shy to live like couple

with my boyfriend but legally we are not yet married. So as far as I can keep the reason why I am not available anymore I will not tell. For me it’s very personal and answering the question why I am not? I can’t answer it in a one line or two. It always end up explaining the whole damn story of our life which include the personal details of us both.

In my head I want to prevent opening a book to all. Only chosen close friend knows why.

If I answer it just a few lines then they will think I am with that man because I am a money digger. In short I get judge and be look down. That’s my reason why I will not let them judge who am i. That our relation is built because of certain circumstances that lead us together and also because we found love in the present of one another.

I will guess we are not a perfect couple to be. We just do our best to keep our relation more stronger, tighten enough, and I can assure that it’s worth fighting for.

What Is the Best Age To Get Married?

Do the age matters in one's marriage?Many set there ideal age to be married other's just don't care.Is it important?Theres no such age can tell of having a right marriage.

You have to know what is the word marriage means.The responsibilities and how to make it work for a lasting relationship.There are several of people think in the age of 25 above she is mature enough.Other girls think 18 is okay.Men also set there age like 30 plus,other say at there 4o.

We seen a lot of couple with the huge gap and yet it works for them ,but not for all.

It may work to the few couple it doesn't mean it also work for us.Being independent is a good sign.If you can stand in your own way.It show's a good of maturity and responsible. This is the time you have to examine yourself ideal and maturity level.